Thursday, June 17, 2010

She was he?

New Riders of the Purple Sage played Hodi's last night.  Was a pretty decent night but there was one incident that left me feeling bit bad.  Early in the night I see this old rather large lady with a purse walking backstage.  I think to myself "damn old people, always think they can go wherever they please" and ran after her.  I say "ma'am, excuse me ma'am...Hey MA'AM."  She finally turned around and she was not she, she was a he! He who was in the New Riders and played keyboard.  I immediatiely apologized and retreated to my office. 

I felt really bad but thinking back to it, the whole thing wasn't really my fault.  The band didn't want backstage wristbands so I had no idea he/she was a band member and on top of that from a distance on a dark dance floor, an old man with longer than average hair, saggy breast, and a man purse really looks like a woman.

So I was embarassed but the band played a good show and the tour manager was all smiles and hugs at the end of the night.  All well that ends well I guess.  But guys, do a few push ups now and then so some kid doesn't mistake you for having boobs when your 67.  And don't walk around with a purse....